by Ashley Bolivar on February 5, 2010
So, are you the next American Idol?
I have a confession to make. My wife loves American Idol and as the good supportive husband that I am, I torture myself and watch it with her.
Alright, so the confession is that I actually enjoy parts of it. However, could you imagine sitting there as one of the Judges?
I honestly don’t think I could handle sitting there all day long listening to so many bad singers. Now, I know that I have a voice for the shower or when I’m home alone and that’s it. But to be so blatantly bad and thinking that your the next big thing… Comon’ man… that is just crazy.
One thing that the judges have in common with you and me is that they absolutely must be good talent scouts.
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by Ashley Bolivar on February 3, 2010
Was it something that I said?
Maybe it was what I was wearing?
What did I do wrong?
Oh, the devastating feeling of being turned down and told, “No I’m just not interested” or “I don’t get involved in businesses like that”.
I think it’s worst than asking a person out on a date and getting turned down.
Have you ever experienced this in the past?
The being turned down on your business, not the date. If you’ve been in this industry for any length of time – a week or more – then chances are that you have.
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by Ashley Bolivar on February 2, 2010
Is it really about “mind over matter”, or is it just about the kind of things we THINK really matter that affects our mind?
On your journey down the yellow brick road in building a successful network marketing business, we all come across challenges and obstacles, a flock of flying monkeys and then some.
But are the obstacles that we see in our way really there or are they nothing more than a magical illusion played on each of us by our mind?
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by Ashley Bolivar on January 30, 2010
Now that you have figured out what you need to do to be employable in order build a successful network marketing business and understand the level of commitment that it takes, I just have one question.
Did burn your ship?
Remember there in no “just checking things out”.
Either you’re committed at hunting down your dream or goals or you’re not.
Either your all in, or not. There is no trying.
Try sitting down without actually touching the chair and without standing up. Sure you may be able to sustain that pose for a little while but it’s uncomfortable AND eventually you will either have to stand or sit.
Eventually you will have to get all in or out, get 100% committed or get out of the industry and find something that you can be 100% committed to.
I’m not trying to be harsh, it just a reality that you must embrace, and the sooner you accept it, the better off You will be.
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by Ashley Bolivar on January 28, 2010
I hope that yesterday post left you taking a good hard look at yourself and that you have come to a decision. You have either decided to hold yourself accountable to building a successful network marketing business AND you set some daily objectives that you MUST complete otherwise you must face the consequences.
On the other hand, if you found that you are already on the right track in making an honest assessment of “YOU”, then what else can you be doing today to create and even more successful network marketing business?
One thing that I do every day is constantly ask myself questions. Not just any kind of questions – thought provoking questions – such as;
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